Fear Blocks Love

What keeps people out of a loving relationship?

Love is always possible and starts with us. Our feelings about our worthiness to be loved, self love, connection , expectations of others, etc.
If we perceive that nothing will go right we are correct, because that is the place from which we will create - negativity and fear.

We are not victims of anyone or any situation. We need to take responsibility for our feelings because we create our reality. Whatever fear or fears that are keeping us from getting out of our stuckness fear of: abandonment, heartache, lack of self love, anger and resentment, how we define ourselves create obstacles to healthy relationships and keep us from being the best that we can be.

Our obstacles need to be acknowledged and transformed so we can make different choices from a place of greater wisdom or we will continue to create a self fulfilling prophesy - another negative relationship.
When we have had negative experiences in relationships, we need to ask ourselves what lessons have we learned. What was he/she reflecting about me that I didn't like? Why do we allow ourselves to get to the point of no return? Did we perceive ourselves to be a victim?

We are in relationships to learn and grow.

EFT ( the emotional freedom technique),meditation and guided imagery are all good techniques to assist in creating a greater awareness and an ability to shift.

Tools to transform can be found in our book mentioned above or on our website at www.12keystoshift.com.

Marion Ross